kata hati- a self reflection

dun judge a book by its cover

penah x dengar menda alah niiii?

penah la kot kan. kalo x penah mai nak habaq padia kan!

cerita 1:

dulu mase kekecik, cik hotz *bukan name sbena* slalu nak geleng kepala tgk 1 keadaan ni.

asal nmpk jee msti tergeleng2. rasa kesian pon ade. 'kenapa la orang2 ni buat bende ni *let say bende B*? alpa sgt diorng ni' tu la kata haty dea mase tu. tp mase tu, bnde B yg mengalpakan ni lah yg buat orng tabik. yg buat self-esteem meningkat tggi mcm klcc.

but again its prohibited. tggi lah mcm mane pon tetap xptot. benda B adalh salah.

n cik hotz, being the one who is on the right path, yg tahu benda A adelah betol, people stays away from her. desperately in need of attention kot, cik hotz ni pon skit2 change herself.tergoda jugak dea pon buat perkara B.

10 thn kemudian, mmg tggi self- esteem nye. bukan klcc dah tp tahap eiffel tower kot!

x yah pkai heels. everything she does today dgn penuh rase condifentnye! ;p jln yg lurus 10 thun dlu which is benda A, x dpt nk bg cik hotz kepuasan niii. amboih. ke mane tah hilangnye semua tu. ty kt diri sndiri. jwpn deep down inside her heart is still 10 years back punye jawapan.

she knows dis is wrong. she knows she shudnt be doing dis. but she needs dis badly.

AGAIN, in need for attentions, she pure2 x tahu.

the only prob is, today, people aren't that alpa lagi dah! benda A dah jd fenomena. bkn benda B yg orng nk lagi. out of sudden it was the other way round. she's the one who will make people geleng2 each time they see her. now she's the alpa part of the earth.n bcoz of this, people judge her as sumone- who doesnt- know- a- thing, orng yg ptt dielakkan. is she? bile ty dea soalan, she answered it brilliantly. terbahek dr ladang. basic kuat sgt! mereka2 yg tunding jari dkt dea menggeleng lg. as if perempuan x guna, tahu tp x apply. kedengaran ayat2 mcm ni-" mcm la ko bgs sgt! dah la x buat A ade hati nk ckp mcm ni"

so ape motif cerita ni?

nmpk x mcm mane org keliling boleh affect sumone?

dr lua anasir bnyk, tp diri sndiri tergoda nk ikt pon satu hal.

tp bile di judge rs marah.

marah diri sndiri sbb tahu slh sndiri tp still rs nk melambat2 kan blik to basic.

ape kate kalo instead of bia orng2 ni judge, kite make a stand dulu.

bia ade prinsip. jgn nak ikot orng sgt.

orng buat A, kite pon nk buat. jap lg bile orng buat B kite pon buat B.

dah tibe2 bende A tu jd trend kite pon nk buat balik.

kononye nk orng sntiasa ikt.

xpenat ke ikot orng manjang? ty diri sndiri then jawablah.

kalo bende2 baik nk ikot then its fine. tp kalo dah sah2 tepampang xptt jgn lah.

xda alasan! :)

one more thing. cube support sikit. jgn nk perli2 kalo benda baik.

xsuke diam suda. hak masing2. kalo kite dah tahu kite betol jgnlah nak diss orng on the matter.

sumtimes even though a person may look like a bimbo. x bermakna dea bimbo.

even though she looks like a slut, it doesnt mean she is.

jgn igt orng tu nmpk x guna tp dea x taw apa.

mmg cik hotz ni x apply tp do we need to judge her?

x ke maloo kalaw dea tahu lebih dr kite yg konon2 nye TERSANGAT BAGOSS!

bile selame ni kite dok tgk dea seblah mate tp hakikatnye kite pon kosong lg nak dibandingkan dgn dea. sbb tu Allah dah create varieties. we r meant to igt kan each other bukan nak bangga2 diriii. x ke lebih bagoss if we pray the best for her? guide each other? compliment each other? sesame umat ilmu jgn nk kedekut. x rugi ponn. tp gune la channel yg btol.

sng jawapan benda ni. sile lah berigt. x lame pon idop nii. tah ade lg esok or x kite pon x tahu. there's time when we need to make a decision.

weight out the pros and cons. if the pros arent permissible maybe the cons r the way it is.

there's a hikmah in everything la kan. juz take out the postve of it n let the weakness alone.

ikotkan hati mmg x nk buat tp kalo x buat x boleyh

makne nye kene buat. tp x ikhlas nk buat? kalo x ikhlas pon tepakse kan? so buat je lahh! sggop x terima padah kalo x buat? x sgop? jd buat lah! as simple as that

tp nak buat tu kne la sekeras2 hati nye stand for it n buat sebuat2 nye!

:) ok bye.

p/s: bkn sng to hold on to a principe. kuatkan semangat!